Sometimes, you will meet someone and it works. Sometimes, you
will meet someone and it will feel like God intervened and made you meet. Most
of the time though, you meet someone and they break your heart into a million
pieces and you start to wonder, “why me?”
With hugot still being one of the trending topics
of all time, we decided to ask Dr. Paolo Bellosillo who is known for advocating
living a quality life to share his thoughts on how you can protect your heart
from the greatest stressor in life, a heartbreak.
What are the qualities that a woman should look for
in a guy?
A woman needs to look for someone who is God
fearing because if a man fears God, he will be loyal, faithful, committed,
responsible, and honest. These are traits that any woman should want for in a
man. A man like this will never make you worry or fear that he will go astray.
A man needs to look for a woman who is capable of
being their partner in life, not just in the bedroom. They need to find someone
with a humble heart and someone who prioritizes their relationship over their
pride.
How can you have a relationship that is good for
both parties?
A relationship that preserves the dignity of the
other person is always a good indication. When there is mutual trust and mutual
respect, when a relationship is rooted in prayer and kindness then reinforced
by communication, you know that it is beneficial to both parties.
What are your 5 tips for a healthy, smooth sailing
relationship?
- Pray together. When God is at the center of everything, everything
will fall into place.
- Communicate. As they said, almost everything can be sorted through
an open and honest communication.
- Be kind. If you can’t be anything, if there is no more love, then
at least be kind.
- Be open. The two of you are not the same person which means that
you will not have the same beliefs, the same principles, and the same
ideologies. In fact, chances are big that you will have different ones so
be open to understanding how the other person works.
- Let go of fear. Most of the time, we react negatively because of
fear.
Any tips to our readers so that they too can have a
lasting relationship?
Being in love is primarily focused on the heart, on
love but everyday should always take that into account as love is a journey and
a decision which both souls builds on. While the whole world celebrates
it, do so in a manner where it focuses not on consumerism or material things
because they fade.
Be original: play a song, sing a song, cook with love for
your shared favorite dish, go to the first place where it all began with your
special someone, or go to church and why delay it, say I DO, tie the knot. Just
make sure the other is ready and fits in the qualities and attributes of those
listed above After All when you Look Through The Eyes Of Love You Should Be
Bringing Out The Best Of Me/You, Here There and Everywhere.
Great recommendations. My husband always says (half joking, but not really) that our marriage is based on resilience and the ability to get back up. Guess it's true! Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThose are great tips on how to keep a healthy relationship, thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteIt's a journey and a decision...love that! Thanks for sharing some great recommendations!
ReplyDeleteLove is a journey. That is a very true statement. Also, there is such a huge difference between being "in Love" and a committed and loving relationship. being "in Love" is really the baby stage to a loving, permanent relationship.
ReplyDeleteI am actually sad that my husband and I don't pray together. I really wish we would. It would be such an easy way to share our hearts.
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